How can you, as an INFJ, ensure that you won't get that upset?
For an INFJ, the dominant Introverted iNtuition needs to be well-supported by the auxiliary Extraverted Feeling function.
作为一个INFJ，你怎样保*你自己不会变的那么烦乱不安？
The better use of Extraverted Feeling for an INFJ would be to use it to assess the INFJ's rich insights and weigh them against the external world.
对于INFJ来说，更好的使用外倾情感的办法是用它来评估INFJ的丰富的洞察，并把这些洞察放在外部世界中衡量。
对于INFJ来说，主导内倾直觉功能需要得到辅助外倾情感功能的良好支持。
当INFJ人格用外倾情感来切除得到的信息，而不是判断内在的直觉时，它是在有效的欺骗自己。
一个用这种衰退的方式使用外倾情感的INFJ可能变得如此强烈的固执己见，以至于对别人形成刚*和不合理的期望。
