My family thinks I'm such a hippie weirdo for sleeping on a futon on the floor, and I'll bet it crossed their mind at least ONCE that they think I am too cheap to spring for a bed.
Similarly, some super peacocked goth dude has a lot of value to other goth chicks, but to a college party chick looking for a crazy frat boy, the goth dude is just some lame ass weirdo.
