问题详情：
For many years there's been a debate about rewarding our it work？Is it effective？__16__
To use rewards，we establish a standard with our kids and give them something for meeting this standard.__17_However，it's used when certain standards of performance，behavior， not been met.
The problem here is not that rewards and punishments don't have immediate often do have quick often will become more obedient when threatened with punishment，and work hard when promised a valuable reward.__18__
To develop responsible，self-disciplined kids，parents need to promote certain of these ideas is that everyone participates and helps in your family，even if you're not crazy about helping.__19__When a task is for a worthy cause(our family can enjoy the house more because I help clean it)，and when parents are cheerful about their chores(家庭杂务)，this message can have a big impact(影响)．
This is how we help our kids develop an intrinsic(内在的)sense of our children develop this responsibility，they'll be more disciplined，and they'll control their emotions we give rewards to our kids，we reduce this intrinsic sense of also raise children who may temporarily perform to a certain standard，But who aren't likely to continue the performance without the carrot lying in front of them.__20__
So keep those shiny carrots to yourself，and let your kids find their own rewards.
A．Agreement has been reached on this debate.
B．If so，what kind of rewards should be used?
C．Punishment is given out in much the same way.
D．These kinds of values must come from inside them.
E．But the problem is what happens when you aren't around.
F．Whatever they do，the most important is that they know the results.
G．Another idea is that there can be enjoyment in doing any task if we choose to make it so.
【回答】
BCEGD
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